Some individuals, such as those involved in missionary work, have been discouraged from getting married and having
a family. There seems to be some reason behind that.
It is good thing to appreciate your parents and your
ancestors who gave you your physical body. However, to concentrate your love
primarily on your family and your relatives leads to self devotion.
Also, when you are married
and have your own family, it becomes hard to direct your love to
others outside of your family.
Besides, having a family requires all aspects of responsibility to support the
Being single or childless tends to make it more easily able
to associate with Spiritual Ethics (to accomplish the mission
you chose before
coming to this material world). If it is considered that having a family
or children impedes one's mission achievement, the wish to having
a family or children may not be fulfilled.
In those cases, no matter how hard one tries, one cannot find a spouse
or have children. In this material world these
situations are considered misfortunes. However, these
misfortunes may be necessitated by your situation to accomplish
If you try to live against your mission (if you do things
contradictory to your life plan), you will most likely receive "corrections" by
your spirit guide. When the "corrections" manifest in
the physical world, they are oftentimes perceived as tragic
events (although they are activated with love by the spiritual
world). Therefore, you should realize the reason behind those
"corrections" and try your best to
accomplish your mission.
The main concentration should be on one's proper perspective. If one lives according to the
the law of nature (balanced co-existence), one will live a life helping
others and will likewise be supported by others.
Although this concept may be very difficult to understand
for those who can feel happiness only in materialistic pleasures
thereby finding path difficult to follow, it is the sure way to be
blessed with true happiness.